Welcome. 

My practice provides counselling for adults who are navigating life with high functioning autism. 

You do not need a formal diagnosis to begin. Whether you are recently diagnosed, self-identifying, or simply exploring neurodivergence, feel free to consider arranging a time for an intro chat.  Whether ASD is newly on your radar or something you have known for years, sessions focus on building self-awareness and developing practical tools that align with your unique mind.

For those who might have received a late diagnosis of ASD, there may be mixed  feelings of relief, confusion, or a sense of frustration.  These realizations bring new challenges, but they also open doors to the deepening of self-understanding.

Sessions are not “”a fix”” but a framework for self-discovery:

The sessions do not provide “treatment” for ASD, and are not geared towards treating or “fixing” the person or any conditions.  There are no attempts to change any core neurotype.

Instead, the focus is on getting to know oneself better as one explores past events, situations, tendencies, thinking patterns, emotions, sensitivities, behaviors, strengths and struggles from new angles based on new understanding.

Equipped with the clarity of updated perspective, current options and future goals can be explored that facilitate the making of choices and decisions that contribute directly to quality of life.

A Safe Space: Sessions are completely confidential, and free of judgment.  The individual sets the pace.  Also, there is no need to feel that “information must be supplied”. Preferences for privacy are respected at all times.

Self-Discovery: We explore your thinking patterns, natural habits, aversions, and personal values.

Sessions also provide the opportunity to acknowledge the struggle, how day-to-day life includes degrees of challenge, sensory input and over-stimulation,

The daily struggle is real:  Living in an environment with the prevailing cultural and societal expectations designed for neurotypical norms creates real friction.

The attempts to cope and manage effectively are often burdensome, stressful, anxiety-provoking, exhausting, triggering or overwhelming and can leave one feeling tense, agitated, distressed, worn thin and in need of recovery.

Empowerment:  But now, imagine learning how to identify exactly when and why things go well – and why they go sideways.  What strategies might facilitate this ability to identify what needs changing and in which contexts?  And what strategies might facilitate developing action steps that result in positive outcomes?  Imagine the value derived from navigating life in ways that respect your mind and body.

Topics of focus for sessions can include:

Relationships and work:  Exploring how you tend to communicate across a range of settings and your specific approach to handling interactions in personal and professional spaces.

Emotion regulation:  Developing an understanding of how difficult emotions arise both internally and from interactions with others, and from there formulating realistic, doable, self-supportive tools to manage emotions in order to avoid emotional roller-coasters, spikes or crashes.  

Burnout and exhaustion:  Trying to mask, cope, and fit in every day is stressful, anxiety-provoking, and exhausting.  It can be beneficial to explore sensory triggers, perfectionism, overthinking, and a relentless urge to overwork with the view to mitigating or avoiding burnout and/or stress. 

Daily habits:  Sessions can facilitate exploration of procrastination, conflict discomfort, conflict avoidance, automatic assumptions, energy management and the optimization of relaxation opportunities.  

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Sessions provide a collaborative approach to facilitate awareness building and strategies to improve on quality of life:

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Collaborative Growth and Daily Living: 
The exploratory discussions provided in each session potentially enhance communication patterns, daily productivity, and overall life satisfaction. Active conversation within each meeting builds practical frameworks tailored directly to current lived experiences.
Every unique circumstance shapes distinct insights, meaning specific approaches may emerge organically through ongoing dialogue rather than predetermined formulas.
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Customizing Functional Solutions: 
Particular methods perhaps serve one individual brilliantly while failing to support another person in the same manner. Personal context dictates effectiveness, meaning custom solutions require careful, deliberate crafting. Uncovering functional tools thus constitutes an engaging, dynamic, and revealing process that honors individual differences without forcing standardized expectations.
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Exploring ASD Experiences:

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Dedicated sessions: 
Dedicated sessions offer valuable space for exploring daily experiences with autism. Individuals might find that such profound dialogue rarely happens elsewhere in daily life. This focused environment potentially yields meaningful insights and the fostering of deeper self-understanding.
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Diagnosis:
Official diagnostic history holds no bearing on enrollment. Unofficial or self-recognized traits might equally warrant supportive exploration. Complete clarity around neurological profiles remains unnecessary before beginning sessions.
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Discovering Personal Solutions:
Individual coping strategies differ greatly across different lives. Universal templates rarely fit every unique situation. Discovering personalized methods may prove to unfold as an engaging and dynamic journey rather than a fixed prescription.
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Initiating Contact:
Initial email correspondence establishes a baseline connection.  In the case you might be interested in setting up a time for an intro chat, please include in your email some windows of times, along with your time zone, that might be convenient for you. As an introductory step, an intro chat might clarify mutual alignment before any further commitment begins.